Survive and Advance

There’s pressure and then there’s everyone you know watching you play in the shootout pressure. I can not think of a greater challenge to an average golfer than attempting important shots in front of a large home club crowd. Typically reserved for member-guest events and other such competitions, the shootout is a real torture chamber for the nerves. After a weekend of grinding through a flight of similarly skilled teams, the best of the bunch get their shot at country club glory. Shootouts are comprised of sorted personalities. Teams that have been playing together for years, partners with business relationships, family member squads, and obscure friendship duos all come for their chance at some cash and to put their name on a plaque. With dozens of on-lookers surrounding each swing, it requires tremendous concentration to perform well. Every shot is riddled with tension. Make the swing, hole the putt, or face elimination. Although the challenge of winning the shootout seems daunting, someone will indeed raise their arms and achieve the unthinkable. There are betting favorites, lovable underdogs, and of course the ones nobody can stand. With drinks flowing and players forced to play through a raucous atmosphere, there’s no telling what might happen and usually, the day is defined by a surprise putt, an unfortunate mishap, or a momentous swing nobody saw coming. That’s the beauty of it. A shootout is unpredictable but there are always countless witnesses on hand to see how a new grill room legend unfolds. It’s simply one of the best environments in golf.

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Member/Guest Season

I’m not sure who first invented the idea of member/guest golf tournaments, but I’m sure glad they did. Some of my favorite golf memories have been born from the long laugh-filled days of these competitions. It’s hard to have a bad time while engrossed in such an indulgent environment. When invited to play, I jump at the chance to participate. It’s a lot of fun to get lost in golf with friends for a weekend. These club tournaments are marked by heavy pours, interesting personas, and tense putts. The food spread is obscene and the smack talk is turned up to the highest level. No matter the format it’s always a good way to compete with kindred spirits. You’ve got to really love golf to spend that much time and money on it in a 48-hour window. The member/guest experience was made for the golf junkie and I’m unquestionably part of that crowd. I’ve been on some winning teams but most of my member/guest record is defined by side-splitting jokes, bets that don’t payout and playing as much as I can before having to return to the daily routine. Being in the mix is always exhilarating, however, the real enjoyment comes from the people I meet and the places I get to know better. No two events are the same and I wish I could get to play them all. Member/guest tournaments always leave me with a small headache and a smile — signs of a good time had by all. It’s a scene that suits me well.

If you enjoy these daily stories, you might like my new book, The Nine Virtues of Golf. It debuted earlier this year as the #1 new release golf book on Amazon.